Friday, November 16, 2012

Nov 17 Tip: A Buddhist Way of Dealing with Anger Directed at You

November 17 Compassionate Living Tip from Interfaith Paths to Peace

Read a Buddhist story that illustrates how to deal with anger directed at you

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/611335.Kindness


Anger - A Buddhist Story
From Kindness: A Treasury of Buddhist Wisdom for Children and Parents (Condra Enterprises, 2005), collected and adapted by Sarah Conover.  

One day, the Buddha and a large following of monks and nuns were passing through a village. The Buddha chose a large shade tree to sit beneath so the group could rest awhile out of the heat. He often chose times like these to teach, and so he began to speak. Soon, villagers heard about the visiting teacher and many gathered around to hear him.

One surly young man stood to the side, watching, as the crowd grew larger and larger. To him, it seemed that there were too many people traveling from the city to his village, and each had something to sell or teach. Impatient with the bulging crowd of monks and villagers, he shouted at the Buddha, "Go away! You just want to take advantage of us! You teachers come here to say a few pretty words and then ask for food and money!"

But the Buddha was unruffled by these insults. He remained calm, exuding a feeling of loving-kindness. He politely requested that the man come forward. Then he asked, "Young sir, if you purchased a lovely gift for someone, but that person did not accept the gift, to whom does the gift then belong?"

The odd question took the young man by surprise. "I guess the gift would still be mine because I was the one who bought it."

"Exactly so," replied the Buddha. "Now, you have just cursed me and been angry with me. But if I do not accept your curses, if I do not get insulted and angry in return, these curses will fall back upon you-the same as the gift returning to its owner."

The young man clasped his hands together and slowly bowed to the Buddha. It was an acknowledgement that a valuable lesson had been learned. And so the Buddha concluded for all to hear, "As a mirror reflects an object, as a still lake reflects the sky: take care that what you speak or act is for good. For goodness will always cast back goodness and harm will always cast back harm."

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Nov 16 Tip: View video of Bruce Springstein's "Philadelphia"

November 16 Compassionate Living Tip from Interfaith Paths to Peace

View a video of Bruce Springstein"s Philadelphia"

http://www.vevo.com/watch/bruce-springsteen/streets-of-philadelphia/USSM20100468

I was bruised and battered and I couldnt tell
What I felt
I was unrecognizable to myself
I saw my reflection in a window I didn't know
My own face
Oh brother are you gonna leave me
Wastin´away
On the streets of philadelphia
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsfreak.com/b/bruce+springsteen/streets+of+philadelphia_20025067.html ]
I walked the avenue till my legs felt like stone
I heard the voices of friends vanished and gone
At night I could hear the blood in my veins
Black and whispering as the rain
On the streets of philadelphia

Aint no angel gonna greet me
Its just you and I my friend
My clothes don't fit me no more
I walked a thousand miles
Just to slip the skin

The night has fallen, Im lyin awake
I can feel myself fading away
So receive me brother with your faithless kiss
Or will we leave each other alone like this
On the streets of philadelphia

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Nov 15 Tip: Read Report on violence Reduction in Louisville

November 15 Compassionate Living Tip from Interfaith Paths to Peace

Read the report from the Mayor's blue ribbon commission that was empowered to find ways to reduce violence in Louisville

http://www.louisvilleky.gov/NR/rdonlyres/9E21E4D1-907A-409D-94BA-601584DDCBED/0/Violence_Report_10_25_12.pdf

Broad, community-wide, sustained effort needed to be effective, report says
Reducing violence in Louisville will take a comprehensive and sustained approach that involves all segments of society — city government, police, schools, non-profits, businesses, the court system and houses of worship, according to a report released today by the Violence Prevention Work Group.

The 123 page report includes a wide range of short and long-term ideas to stem the violence and to create a culture in Louisville where every neighborhood is safe.

Dr. LaQuandra Nesbitt, director of the Louisville Metro Department of Public Health and Wellness and co-chair of the work group with Dr. J. Blaine Hudson of the University of Louisville, said that violence is an issue that impacts many neighborhoods.

“The work group report contains many recommendations that are applicable across the city,” she said.

Nesbitt and the 37 other members of the work group presented their findings to the Mayor today at Metro Hall.

“My goal is to create the safest large city in America and this report gives us the insight to help achieve that,” Mayor Greg Fischer said. “It’s clear from the report that city government or police alone cannot reduce violence. It takes an entire city — all 750,000 citizens — working toward this common goal.”

Fischer said he and his leadership team will spend the rest of the year poring over the report to determine how city government can assist in this important endeavor.

The mayor encouraged business, education and religious leaders and non-profits to download the report from the city website, www.louisvilleky.gov, read it and begin thinking about how they or their organizations can assist.

“Turning this report into an action plan and implementing the recommendations will take time, but the work has already started,” Fischer said. “We need community partners to tell us what role they can play.”

Some of the report’s short-term recommendations include expanding policing efforts, particularly in the Parkland and Russell neighborhoods. That effort is already underway with the reorganization of the police department and the creation of the VIPER unit (Violence Incident Prevention Enforcement and Response) by Police Chief Steve Conrad. Longer-term tactics include the hiring of a full-time Violence Prevention Coordinator for the city and expanding and improving the quality of after-school and summer programs to keep children and young adults off the streets.

The group, formed in June, had five subcommittees which made recommendations in five areas — community building; education; employment and economic development; health and social wellness; juvenile and criminal justice. Highlights include:

Community Building, chaired by Eleanor Jordan, resident of the Parkland neighborhood
  • Continue to tackle the significant and complex issues surrounding vacant and abandoned properties;
  • Restore neighborhood/community liaisons to assist in creating neighborhood associations and block watches;
  • Encourage the Louisville Metro Housing Authority to require orientation sessions for families moving into scattered-site housing to know what is expected of them as tenants;
  • Encourage construction of more market-rate housing in Western Louisville;
  • Encourage smaller churches to join together — and pool financial resources — to offer services around violence prevention and programs for ex-offenders.
Education, chaired by Dana Jackson-Thompson, executive director of the Network Center for Community Change, and Dr. Ricky Jones, UL professor
  • Create robust programs for youth while they’re out of school;
  • Implement a comprehensive student support system which bridges school and community and addresses the academic/social/health/behavioral needs of students;
  • Increase the number of African-Americans enrolled in Advanced Placement courses;
  • Increase post-secondary attainment and graduation;
  • Develop violence prevention programs in the schools;
  • Develop a full-scale campaign to extol the benefits of a higher education and to create a college-going culture citywide;
Employment/Economic Development, chaired by Samuel Watkins, president of the Louisville Central Community Center
  • Focus economic development activity in specific areas of Western Louisville — Park Duvalle, the Old Walnut Street/Muhammad Ali corridor, West Market and West Broadway between 14th and 34th streets;
  • Make strategic public infrastructure investments for better streetscapes in those same four areas;
  • Ensure that West Louisville residents get a fair share of the jobs created by the Ohio River Bridges Project;
  • Grow and develop new entrepreneurs in Western Louisville;
  • Hire people from Western Louisville to care for vacant properties.
Health/Social Wellness, chaired by Dr. Nesbitt
  • Create a Young Adult Fatality Review Committee to develop a comprehensive and systematic approach for reviewing young adults deaths;
  • Develop a suicide prevention program, to be led by the city Health and Wellness Department. More people in Louisville commit suicide than are murdered each year – and suicides have far-reaching impacts;
  • Create a Louisville Nature and Outdoor Stewardship Center in Shawnee Park to connect children to the outdoors;
  • Replicate Operation Ceasefire, originally created in Boston in the 1990s, that focuses on people involved in gangs and/or drug-related activities;
  • Create a Crisis Response Team to help victims’ family and friends deal with the immediate aftermaths of homicides (formation and training is already underway).
Juvenile/Criminal Justice, chaired by Circuit Judge Brian Edwards.
  • Develop programs to better integrate ex-offenders back into society;
  • Provide early intervention programs for young people the first time they have contact with the criminal justice system;
  • Create Community Accountability Boards where trained citizen volunteers resolve low-level crimes committed by juveniles;
  • Encourage expansion of mental health courts that service people who commit crimes due to mental illness;
  • Lobby for legislation to allow automatic restoration of civil and voting rights once ex-offenders serve their time.
Contacts:Dr. LaQuandra Nesbitt, chair of work group,  (502) 574-6549 

 

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Nov 14: Attend the Festival of Faiths

November 14 Compassionate Living Tip from Interfaith Paths to Peace

Attend Louisville's Festival of Faiths which begins today

http://festivaloffaiths.org/

What is the Festival of Faiths?

The Festival of Faiths is an annual event that celebrates the religious diversity of our community, promotes unity, and strengthens the role of religion in society.
Each year’s Festival brings thousands of people from different faith traditions together to discuss issues of importance to their faith life and their daily life, and to engage in common action to promote the good of our community.

2012 Festival of Faiths – Sacred Fire

The theme for the 2012 Festival of Faiths is Sacred Fire: Light of Compassion. This is the light that illuminates consciousness, leading the way to life, love and justice. Festival programs, including keynote addresses, panel discussions, interfaith prayer services, films, music, exhibits, youth events and more will emphasize the role of compassion in our spiritual and daily lives. Each of the programs will direct attention to the sacred fire of compassion that enriches our lives and motivates us to serve as good stewards in our congregations, in the workplace, for our environment, in our schools and throughout our neighborhoods.

Monday, November 12, 2012

Nov 13 Tip: Listen to story about how to reduce murderous violence

November 13 Compassionate Living Tip from Interfaith Paths to Peace

Listen to "Fresh Air" story about successful efforts to reduce deadly violence in our cities


http://m.npr.org/story/141803766
Gang- and drug-related inner-city violence, with its attendant epidemic of incarceration, is the defining crime problem in our country. In some neighborhoods in America, one out of every two hundred young black men is shot to death every year, and few initiatives of government and law enforcement have made much difference. But when David Kennedy, a self-taught and then-unknown criminologist, engineered the "Boston Miracle" in the mid-1990s, he pointed the way toward what few had imagined: a solution.

Don't Shoot tells the story of Kennedy's long journey. Riding with beat cops, hanging with gang members, and stoop-sitting with grandmothers, Kennedy found that all parties misunderstood each other, caught in a spiral of racialized anger and distrust. He envisioned an approach in which everyone-gang members, cops, and community members-comes together in what is essentially a huge intervention. Offenders are told that the violence must stop, that even the cops want them to stay alive and out of prison, and that even their families support swift law enforcement if the violence continues. In city after city, the same miracle has followed: violence plummets, drug markets dry up, and the relationship between the police and the community is reset.

This is a landmark book, chronicling a paradigm shift in how we address one of America's most shameful social problems. A riveting, page-turning read, it combines the street vérité of The Wire, the social science of Gang Leader for a Day, and the moral urgency and personal journey of Fist Stick Knife Gun. But unlike anybody else, Kennedy shows that there could be an end in sight.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Nov 12 Tip: Read "Making a Heart for God"

November 12 Compassionate Living Tip from Interfaith Paths to Peace

Read Dianne Aprile's "Making a Heart for God"

http://www.skylightpaths.com/page/product/978-1-893361-49-2

The monastic experience demystified—an essential guide to what it’s like to spend a week inside a Catholic monastery.

A life of quiet, work and prayer, monasticism has been a part of the Christian spiritual tradition for over 1,700 years, and it remains very much alive today. This book offers you a personal encounter with daily life inside the Trappist Abbey of Gethsemani, Kentucky, as you might encounter it on a one-week retreat. Including a detailed guide to the monastic places in North America that receive visitors, as well as a detailed glossary, Making a Heart for God is an excellent introduction for anyone interested in learning about monastic spirituality—and it is also the perfect preparation for your first retreat experience.
Whether you’re simply curious about what’s behind the mystery, or interested in experiencing it firsthand, this is the ideal handbook.

Also included are a helpful glossary of terms and a listing of monasteries throughout North America that receive visitors. 


Saturday, November 10, 2012

Nov 11 Tip: Learn about the Kindness Handbook

November 11 Compassionate Living Tip from Interfaith Paths to Peace

Learn about Sharon Salzberg: and "The Kindness Handbook"

http://www.soundstrue.com/weeklywisdom/?agmepisode=6933&wwepisode=6937&pepisode=6885&ppepisode=1445&utm_source=soundstrue&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=weeklywisdom-121109&_bta_tid=3.RM0.AWjsVQ.Aosi.FZug..VcuN.b..l.ATe7.a.UJ3tYA.UJ3tYA.x_LC0w&_bta_c=5r6yw07j5pxdrvu5ogylcx65gz86s

I was leading a meditation group in the DC area, and we had rented an elementary school auditorium for the day. All along the walls of the corridors were posted rules of being kind. During the breaks in the day, I would just stand and read them, again and again. They seemed so simple, yet like many simple truths, if we were to live them rather than merely admire them, they could change our life, whatever our age. The rules posted there rest on principles like dissolving the rigid boundaries we hold between ourselves and others, including rather than excluding, recognizing that our actions (and words) are consequential, and being thoughtful.
Carderock Elementary School rules for being kind:
  • Treat people the way you would like to be treated.
  • Play fair.
  • Respect everyone—other students and all staff.
  • Everyone can play.
  • Help others when they need help.
  • Don’t hurt others on the inside or the outside.
  • Honor all of the pillars of ethics.
I decided that every week I would take one of these rules to hold as a touchstone—a guideline—to remember, to make choices by, to experiment with deepening, to enjoy. One of the most provocative and poignant for me was “Everyone can play.” When I first read it I imagined a child who was left out, who was staring at the in-crowd, feeling unwanted or unseen—then being beckoned forth, invited to join in, affirmed.
As I practiced this tenet, I noticed more hints of loneliness in those I encountered than I had seen before, more subtle echoes of that forlorn child than I expected. Including others was often like watching something unfurl and begin to flower within them. In making a point of including others in conversation, in regard, in a fullness of attention, I felt some subtle walls within me dissolve as well. There was a growing sense of rightness, of balance, because after all everyone should get to play.
Experiment with these rules; try one a week, or one a month, to emphasize. Even if you do live your life according to these tenets, consciously choosing to emphasize them can be enlivening, opening, and at times surprising.